Marriage

As some people will know I am married. I have been married for 1 year, 3 months, 3 weeks and 1 day! So not long... but Long enough to make my judgement of if I like it or not....so far!

And I have to say I love it! I have never enjoyed something so much in my life for such a long time! I get very bored very quickly, I am a futuristic...and in my case that means looking for something better to get to, to improve. But being married to Isaac has never bored me. there is always something to do, not all tasks are joyous...ie sorting out an arguement. but I can safety say, hand on heart I am not bored.

I read somewhere that women are now the most likely ones to start a Divorce procedure. this is because women, according to this article, have unrealistic views of what marriage is going to be like. thinking that getting married will change the things they don't like, make him all lovey and suddenly there will be a bond thats going to make life together really easy....Well there is no need to not hope hey!! But the more I think on this, I realise that life together isn't easy and that this is not just the essence of marriage but also the joy.

That bond doesn't suddenly appear when you say the vows, or when you have your first toast, or dance or honeymoon. No. It slowly but surely grows. Very hard to spot at first...so hard that I am only just getting the first glances of it now. As every joy, disagreement and signifcant moment passes something, how ever small, begins to grow and strenghten. And out of this bond flows many wonderful things, and blessings.

It really is amazing to be married to Isaac, to share life and everything that comes with it - together. I wouldn't change a thing in the pass year and 3 months. No arguements, no disappoints, no laughs, no success.

I think the chorus to the new take that song sums up for me what marriage is....you and me we can light up the sky, if you stay by my side we can rule to world!!!

(I love you loads Isaac! xxx)